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1 Way To Honor Your Spouse (or anyone else)

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I don’t remember who I heard say this, but for some reason, it stuck with me.

It stuck with me enough that it’s become something I practice regularly when my wife walks into the room where I’m sitting.

I stand up.

I know it seems simple, but it’s just my way of honoring her,
of honoring her presence in the room.

It’s my way of acknowledging that her presence means something to me.

What’s one way you honor your spouse, significant other, or anyone you respect?

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24 responses to “1 Way To Honor Your Spouse (or anyone else)”

  1. bill (cycleguy) Avatar
    bill (cycleguy)

    It used to be (back in my day) that men always stood when a woman entered the room. i still try to do that…when I remember. I am going to have to think about this with my wife. I don’t normally do that I don’t think. Thanks for the challenge today jonathan.

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    1. Jonathan Pearson Avatar
      Jonathan Pearson

      you’re welcome. Thanks for stopping by, Bill.

      Reply
  2. Rob Tinker Avatar
    Rob Tinker

    Another way to honor a spouse is to just turn off the TV when they come into the room with something to say. It lets you focus on what they are saying and shows them that you are trying to pay attention. The game will usually still be on when they are done.

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    1. Jonathan Pearson Avatar
      Jonathan Pearson

      Absolutely. Good suggestion. Undivided attention. Thanks, Rob.

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  3. Phillip Dickinson Avatar
    Phillip Dickinson

    Very good. Thanks! I have been teaching my children about this principle. Good points made by Bill and Rob too. Another way I like to honor my wife is by speaking well of her to our children and to others even when she is not around.

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    1. Jonathan Pearson Avatar
      Jonathan Pearson

      YES! The ultimate honor. Speaking well of her. I think a lot of couples miss that. Even in difficult times, still speak well. Thanks, Phillip.

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  4. Jon Stolpe Avatar
    Jon Stolpe

    Open the door for my wife.

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    1. Jonathan Pearson Avatar
      Jonathan Pearson

      Yep. Always important. Thanks, Jon!

      Reply
  5. Sherry Avatar
    Sherry

    When he speaks, not to interrupt – and when he’s finished, instead of giving my own input, to ask questions about what he just said to show genuine interest and understanding of what was important enough for him to share with me.

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    1. Jonathan Pearson Avatar
      Jonathan Pearson

      Great addition, Sherry. Not interrupting is one that I’m not always good at either. Thanks for stopping by and sharing!

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    2. Eileen Avatar
      Eileen

      Great one, Sherry. When my husband and I first got married I was notorious for finishing his sentences…not good. 10 years later and I’ve gotten much better at keeping my big mouth shut.

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      1. Jonathan Pearson Avatar
        Jonathan Pearson

        Haha

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  6. Cheryl Lewis Avatar
    Cheryl Lewis

    He loves when I smile. I should smile at him more often.

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    1. Jonathan Pearson Avatar
      Jonathan Pearson

      Yes you should. :) Thanks for stopping by.

      Reply
  7. Fred Avatar
    Fred

    When walking with my wife, I always walk on the outside – nearer the traffic. It won’t do much good if there’s a runaway bus, but it says that I treasure her and mean to protect her if I’m able.

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    1. Jonathan Pearson Avatar
      Jonathan Pearson

      True. I often forget that one. Good reminder!

      Reply
  8. Adam Avatar
    Adam

    I always open doors for my wife. I like the standing up…very respectful.

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    1. Jonathan Pearson Avatar
      Jonathan Pearson

      Yeah. Opening door is still really important. Don’t see it as much as we should these days.

      Reply
  9. Eileen Avatar
    Eileen

    Loved Sherry’s comment. I don’t think my hubby has ever stood up when I’ve entered the room…he probably knows I would try to steal his spot on the couch…just kidding ;) I also try to honor my spouse by thanking him for things he does for our family. I want him to know I appreciate him.

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    1. Jonathan Pearson Avatar
      Jonathan Pearson

      Appreciation is a big thing… Especially for a man (of course, that’s all I know :)) Thanks for your add!

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  10. ThatGuyKC Avatar
    ThatGuyKC

    Dude, that is awesome. I hold the door for my wife and make sure to hang up whatever phone call I’m having if she calls/texts me.

    I’m gonna start the standing up thing.

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    1. Jonathan Pearson Avatar
      Jonathan Pearson

      Like the hanging up with whoever for her. Not sure if I do that all the time. Thanks KC.

      Reply
  11. Joey Espinosa Avatar
    Joey Espinosa

    Just saw this and thought you might like it, as it relates to this post:

    http://enoughofthecattalk.com/2012/02/24/notes-from-the-field-chivalry-isnt-dead/

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    1. Jonathan Pearson Avatar
      Jonathan Pearson

      haha. Yeah, it’s really rare to see. Thanks for the link.

      Reply

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